Modern heroines often fall into one of two extremes: they are either portrayed as deeply flawed to the point of being unrelatable, or they are perfectly capable and flawless to the point of being boring. Both extremes present challenges for writers who want to create well-rounded, relatable female protagonists.
Take Rita Vrataski from Edge of Tomorrow. Rita is a powerful and skilled soldier, but her character is largely defined by her toughness and near-perfection, making her a bit unapproachable and one-dimensional. On the other end of the spectrum, characters like Rachel Green from Friends or Amy Dunne from Gone Girl can sometimes feel so flawed and emotionally unstable that their flaws overshadow their growth. While flawed characters are essential for relatability, their mistakes need to lead to change and growth, not just repetition of the same errors.
The key to creating a compelling heroine is finding balance. She should have flaws that make her human and challenges that lead to meaningful growth, but she also needs strengths that allow her to evolve and succeed. Heroes who are “too perfect” or “too flawed” don’t resonate as deeply as those who show a dynamic journey of overcoming obstacles while staying grounded in their humanity. It’s this balance that makes for the most engaging and realistic heroines.